TWO KINDS OF DUTY IN MARRIAGE
-Oba Samuel
There’re two kinds of duty in Marriage: expected duty and sacrificial duty. Understanding the impacts of these duties in marriage will help you to build better intimacy with your spouse.
1.Expected Duty:
.Expected duties are daily routines which may not attract gratitude because it’s normal .Examples are:
#cooking for your husband
#Buying food stuffs from the market
#Giving money to your wife for upkeep
#Cleaning the house as a wife, among others.
2.Sacrificial Duty
Sacrificial duties are unusual acts that trigger surprises in your spouse.
Sacrificial duties is an affection booster in Marriage. Examples are:
#Cooking breakfast or dinner for your wife
# Bathe your children & prepare them for school as a husband
#:Wash the toilet as a husband
#Wash the plates as a man
#Help your wife to loose her hair.
#Inviting your husband to the ‘other room’. for sex
The list is endless.
If your desire is to make your spouse happy and boost romance in your marriage; engage in sacrificial duties.
Love will grow where there’s a conscious effort to make love deposits daily through sacrificial duty. in your marriage/relationship.
The more sacrificial you are;the better your marriage.