VITAMIN C OF A PROMISING RELATIONSHIP
Oba Samuel
Promising relationship is everyone’s dream but it’s difficult to find these days as there are more feigned lovers than genuine ones.
Feigned relationships leads to love-pretense, heartbreaks, tears ,sadness and regrets .
While promising relationship will end in joy, fulfilment and joyful wedding .
Why waste your time in a fake and unreliable relationship that will break your heart when you can actually confirm If it’s a promising relationship or not? How? Read below:
“for other foundation can no man lay
1.Christ’s foundation :The strength of a building is determined by its foundation .Jesus Christ is the true foundation of a promising relationship. He must be reigning in the lives of both parties in the relationship. It takes a deep relationship with Christ to love unconditionally , to be faithful and be trustworthy. If the foundation is on money,good job,stature,family background, car,house,position,help and gifts,that means,the foundation is faulty and it will soon crumble. You will need to assess your relationship very well in order to know if Jesus Christ is the foundation or not before it is too late. Where Christ is not the foundation,He won”t be the builder.
2.Contentment: Contentment is a force that glue two people together in a promising relationship . No matter how long you have been in that courtship, if the fellow is not content with your person, you will only be journeying in circles counting years of courtship without stepping up into wedding.
Watch out! Is he/she fond of complaining about your facial look, height, stature, complexion, hair or sets of teeth ? That means contentment is lacking!
Please, don’t patch things up in a relationship with someone who does not celebrate you. Don’t a stage wedding with someone who is not pleased with your stature, because you don’t have power to change your height or look. You can’t keep such a fellow because he/she will run after the stature he has been longing for .
3.#Commitment :Contentment is the gateway to commitment. The true test of contentment is commitment. In a promising relationship, commitment is total. Commitment is what makes you to give your heart totally to the fellow you love ,hold on to your promises and stand strong in a relationship to only one person regardless of the challenges or opposition.
It’s commitment that will make you weather storms together, sacrifice for each other. If he/she is truly committed to you,he/she will not be in any other romantic relationship .
If he/she failed the commitment test ,the chances of getting married is slim
4.Calls:Constant calls is one of the major ingredients that fuel love. Not making phone calls or seldom calls is a sign that he/she is busy with what he values more than you.He/she may lay claims to job demand as an excuse but this is not tenable because you don’t need 24 hours to put a call through to the one you love; whom your heart is truly willing to connect.
In a promising relationship, every means of communication -SMS, WhatsAPP, Facebook, Instagram and Telegram are deployed to communicates love and affection .If you’re truly in love, make call deposits to revive and sustain love. Pick up your phone and put a call through to that very special person in your life to keep the flow of love.
5.Care:Love is not an abstract, it’s an action word. To demonstrate that you love, care is a must and it must be visible ,not just in the mind. Promising relationships involves real care towards the one you love .It is to be concerned about the feelings, needs and general wellbeing of the one you love. Caring attitudes communicates love and give peace of mind more than words in relationships.
A carefree person is a big risk in love relationship, he/she can make your heart bleeds and in depression.
