Understanding Small Manhood Syndrome
-By Oba Samuel
“as a man thinketh in his heart so is he “Prov.23:7
The recent development in a couples marriage propelled me to do this teaching in order to address it for all to know should in case anyone or couple closer to you is passing through this similar stage.
IMPORTANT FACTS TO KNOW ABOUT SMALL MANHOOD SYNDROME
Please,do not laugh off this very real issues as it worries many husbands in marriage.
#Many men worry about the size of their manhood and this causes lots of anxieties in them,especially when they compares with larger penis in pornography
#They worry so much believing their wives will judge them based on their penis size
#Many people believe that a typical penis is 6 inches long,but this is false and misleading which triggers anxiety in those who worry about having a small penis.
#The average non-erect penis is 9.16 centimetres or 3.61 inches long.
#The average erect penis is 13.12 cm(5.17 inches )long.
#Penises longer than 6 inches when erect are rare.
#What many do not know is that women are scared of a very long penis.
Several years ago,I witnessed the case of a wife who packed out of her matrimonial home because her husband’s penis is too long because this bring pain and discomfort to her during sexual intercourse .
#A truly small-manhood (micropenis) is less than 2.75inches long when erect.Few men suffer this condition.
#Research shown that 45% of men want a bigger penis.That’s why there’s a lot of penis enlargement drugs and solutions all over the internet,which are very risky as they may lead to serious complications.
#According to urologist report; 85% of women are pleased with their spouse’s manhood,yet many normal men suffer “small-manhood syndrome”
#Penis size rarely affect sexual performance unless if it is a case of micropenis which is smaller than the average penis.
#People with small-manhood syndrome do not have an unusually small penis,they’re only filled with anxiety about their penis size ,it’s a battlefield of the mind.
SYMPTOMS OF SMALL-MANHOOD SYNDROME
These are the signs that you’re battling with small-manhood syndrome because most times men battling it don’t speak out :
#They belief that their penis is unusually small
#Fond of comparing penis size with those in the media and that of others.
#Feeling ashamed about your penis size and you can’t undress in the presence of other men.
#Always prefer sex in the dark because of shame /embarrassment that his penis is too small and therefore hide it from his wife
#Avoids bathing with the wife so as to prevent her from seeing the smallness of his penis.
#Placing unusual high value on penis size as the only way to satisfy wife sexually.
#Belief that his wife’s complaints of lack of sexual satisfaction is caused by his small manhood.
#Loss of interest in having sex with wife because of anxiety about penis size
#Reduced getting erection and orgasm during sex
#Anxiety and depression about appearance
#See a counsellor and feel free to open up on your fears and worries.
#Psychotherapy is also advisable for men whose obsession over penis size is interfering with their lives.
#Wife of a man with small-manhood anxiety should help by assuring him that ,she is enjoying his sexual performance.
This will serve as a psychological healing to him.
#Wives should avoid using derogatory statement about their husbands’ penis.
#Also,the wife should not just lie down motionless during sex but to moan, gibber and demonstrate signs that you’re feeling his acts.
Wives,do this because many husbands are depressed if during sex,their wife is motionless, this make them feel lesser than a man,i.e. sexually weak.
#Cognitive behavioural therapy(CBT): This therapy helps people to understand how their thoughts affect their feelings and behaviour.
This can help them reduce anxiety over penis size.
#Understand the triggers and avoid them:Pornography, wife’s comment or behaviours during and after sex can trigger it.
Husbands, run away from porn,it will give you distorted views about manhood,destroy your marriage and Christian life.
#Wives,avoid condemning your husband’s sexual ability,even if you’re not satisfied, say it in a way that it will not affect him psychologically.
#Wives,give your husband total support if he his having any sexual problem. This often aids the rate of recovery compares to when you’re condemning him.
Encourage him and assure him that he will soon get over it because I have the case of a husband who committed murder over wife’s comments about his sexual weakness.
#Avoid penis enlargement drugs and avoid surgery.
The only time you need surgery is if your penis fall within the group of micropenis(Penis size about 2.5 inches) and you will need a urologist to confirm that first and follow his instructions.
#Instead of being worried about penis enlargement, concentrate more on what to do to maintain lasting erection during sex which is what can get your wife satisfied sexually and be a man enough to perform according to her desired frequency daily, weekly and monthly.
If it’s about erection challenges,there’s a solution to that and you will experience longer thrusting and have a fulfilled sex life in your marriage.
Don’t keep that challenge to yourself alone,seek help.
May your marriage gets better daily in Jesus Name.
Please share to all your contacts.
Your Family &Relationship Coach,
Pst Oba Samuel
E-mail:obasamuel09@gmail..com
