15 LADIES HIS MOTHER WARNED HIM NOT TO MARRY-Part 1

15 LADIES HIS MOTHER WARNED HIM NOT TO MARRY-Part 1
By Kemi-Oba Samuel*

*1. Possessive Lady

*When you are in relationship with her, she will make sure she cut you away from others,* *having other relationship with any other person including your family becomes a threat to her,

*she desires to be your all in all, telling her you have things that does not involve her always bring out negative mood* .*

*Being with her can be burdensome because she monitors your calls, your business transaction,* *office work, outing and all engagement*

*No mother wants a daughter in-law that will cause discord amidst her children so they warn their sons severally when they see signs of such** .
*2. Divisive Lady

*She is always in the middle of disagreement that separate people into opposing group.*

**When there is peace in a group or family; it is because she is not there, many ladies are just not comfortable if they do not form caucus in a group or family,*

*they always with whom they sow the seed of discord and share unconfirmed rumours; be it in Church, youth department, family or work place.

Please, turn a new leaf

*3.Controlling Lady
*She controls everything and everyone around her, it is either her way or no way.*

*You can’t control her, she makes decision for herself and others and when she does, you cannot influence her to change.*

*4.Temperamental Lady
*Her ‘but’ is anger. Anger outburst is her major weakness.*

*Once angry, her mouth loses control, she says things that she will regret later* .

*She is not the one to back down during a confrontation** .

*She is not in control of her emotion, one moment she cries, next she laughs, and another time she is shouting, she flair-up at the slightest provocation.*

*She is emotionally immature.

*5.The Challenger
*She is a specialist in querying and questioning, she finds it difficult to obey authority and always find* *loopholes in whatever the authority says.*

*6.The Pretender
*Pretense is her second nature* .

*Her actions, speech and way of life are not real, she is like a chameleon* . *No matter how good you are in pretending; your real self will definitely be unveiled.*

*A pretender can be kneeling up and down publicly to greet in order to portray respect but will disdain the person in the heart.*

*7.The Gold Digger
*The gold-digger is not in relationship for love but for what she can get from the man.*

*She will never accept proposal from a man who is at the lowest ebb of life* .

*For her to go into a relationship with a man, he must be rich with a lucrative job or business, good car, designer’s wears and well-furnished apartment.*

*She can as well initiate a relationship if she discovered that the Parents of the man are wealthy and influential* .

*Please, be informed that Mothers have a way of identifying a gold-digger when they see one.*

*Amend your ways if you are one because gold-diggers will enter into many troubles due to their covetous nature*
……. to be contd.