5. Communicate better
Make conscious effort to be talking partners this year. Communicate intimately and don’t just inform or instruct. Make the atmosphere conducive and be intentional to discuss and listen to your spouse with rapt attention daily.
Stop shouting or condemning your spouse and don’t be a bully if you truly want communication to flow. The undertaker that is burying communication in most marriages today is phones and social media, don’t allow it. For effective communication with your spouse, push your phone aside while discussing with your spouse.
6. Improve your closeness
When couples are drifting apart, their marriage is going towards extinction. Make efforts to get closer to your spouse this year. You can’t build intimacy without closeness.
Closeness is not just about living in the same house, it involves sleeping in the same bed, playing together, bathing, eating, talking, travelling, jogging, praying, worshiping God together and walking hand-in-hand.
Do everything to promote closeness and stop living in isolation.
7. Improve your bedroom life
Sexual intercourse is designed by God as a force that solidify the one-flesh mystery between husband and wife. Sex is the affection fertilizer and intimacy booster in marriage.
The sickness of the bedroom life is an invitation for disaffection, separation and divorce.
Address your bedroom issues now! .Any bedroom problem left unaddressed will resort to deep pain in your heart and it will affect your health and marriage negatively. Are you having problems with low sperm count, miscarriages, frigidity, sexual deprivation, premature ejaculation or low libido, it’s not strange and you don’t have to feel shy. Seek help, there’re solutions to them. Bedroom problems don’t go away if you don’t address them.
Light-up your bedroom, be more romantic and enjoy a healthy marriage this year like no other.
